Tag Archives: quirks

Who has taken your voice?

It is a bit odd to hear so many videos (especially shorter ones on YouTube, Instagram and other social media sites) narrated by an electronic voice. Even if the person producing the content has a speech impediment, difficult accent or you just feel timid, your voice is yours, and will bring a special flavor to your material. It seems strange to hide behind a robotic voice that makes everyone sound the same (presumably there are different choices but the default is the one that appears constantly).

I was pondering something similar with a friend today, recalling instances of people (mostly women) who speak in an alternate voice in stressful situations, such as switching to a child-like voice when speaking before a group or in front of superiors; whereas when in private (with trusted friends, for instance) they speak strongly and clearly, without shyness. But we also do this to avoid frightening people who are very sensitive, don’t we? Speaking gently and in a more child-like voice when comforting someone who is startled, for instance?

An unexpected thing with singing has been learning to be comfortable with my own sound, since the sound produced by lyric singing is very unlike the sound produced by ordinary speech. As new sound production develops it can seem too loud, resonant, harsh, brittle, sharp, nasal, vibrant, or even painful to the ears. My professor’s favorite thing to say at times is “If it sounds weird, you’re doing something right!” because if the voice is in familiar territory you are not exercising and expanding the range and quality of vocal production for singing.

Dear friends

Now and then I catch up on Facebook, and a few posts down comes that showcase of People I May Know. I spent a while browsing them tonight, and they are an interesting assortment.

I know her…I think. High school? No. But the name is familiar, even if the face is not.

I know that face. From where? But the name…doesn’t ring a bell.

Oh! There she is! I haven’t seen her in ages. But should I friend her? We were never very close and don’t have much in common.

Um. I knew him, but he seems to have taken a turn for the weird. Not interested in reconnecting.

Oh my! She was one of the kids I made videos for when I had a horse show video business. Now grown up.

Hm. Same last name as my cousin…but I don’t know them. Must be in-laws of cousins?

It’s surprising how many people stick with one focus or job or activity all their lives (still riding horses! still playing with that band! still working in IT!), and how many go from one thing to another. I admire the former a bit, but I’m one of the latter a bit.

Well, I didn’t add more friends. Trying to keep the information stream under control. But it was fun seeing so many people I might know.